My blog is home to several kinds of writing. You can find talks like the keynote on Queering Leadership that I gave at Yale University—it was later featured on the Queering Leadership episode of the UnLeading Project.
You’ll find the articles I write for Xtra Magazine, where I share personal essays like this one about co-parenting with three other queer people. I also write empowering, research-based articles on topics like Queering Death and how we can build intergenerational communities where queer and trans older adults can thrive.
Many LGBTQ2S+ people connect with ourselves and others through pleasure, eroticism, our bodies and our senses. We bring creativity, playfulness, ritual and sacredness to these experiences, which can be spaces of healing, discovery and enjoyment. While not everyone wants or needs to bring these facets of queerness to dying or mourning, for others they’re a vital part of imagining a fitting death or the process of moving through grief.
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