My blog is home to several kinds of writing. You can find talks like the keynote on Queering Leadership that I gave at Yale University—it was later featured on the Queering Leadership episode of the UnLeading Project.
You’ll find the articles I write for Xtra Magazine, where I share personal essays like this one about co-parenting with three other queer people. I also write empowering, research-based articles on topics like Queering Death and how we can build intergenerational communities where queer and trans older adults can thrive.
It can feel scary to get older as an LGBTQ2S+ person, if you imagine aging at all. I’m surrounded by people who are surprised to still be alive because of all the ways death is a constant companion in their lives. And yet, here we are, aging together, hopeful and fearful about what the future might hold. I don’t know if I will be lucky enough to get old, but I do know I want to help dream and fight for something better for our community.
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